DEAR Jasminda MY husband is completely obsessed with Taylor Swift, and plays her songs constantly in the car. Personally I do not like Taylor Swift, and ask him to turn it off. To this he replies, “I am expanding your musical horizons.” However, I don’t want to ‘expand my musical horizons’.

DEAR Jasminda, My husband insists on having his window down in the car, regardless of the weather. He says he feels stifled with the windows up and the air-conditioner on. I prefer to regulate the temperature. How do we compromise? Belinda W. Dear Belinda, I wonder if it's a short-haired thing. People with short

DEAR Jasminda, What are the expectations for Easter presents this year? I just went to the shops for my grandchildren and there are Easter trees, Easter decorations, Easter wreaths, Easter clothes, and on it goes. Brian W. Dear Brian, Wreaths? Trees? Decorations? It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas (feel free to

DEAR Jasminda, I FIND it very unfair that the smokers in our workplace get extra breaks. I'm stuck at my desk all day apart from the fifteen minutes I get for morning tea and the thirty minutes I get for lunch. It's like they're being rewarded for a bad habit. Julia R. Dear

DEAR Jasminda, RECENTLY I was setting up for my spin class when a lady walked in and said I was on her spin bike. She told me she had to sit there as it was directly in front of the fan and she sweats a lot. What is the etiquette here?

DEAR Jasminda, Is it wrong that I'm relishing in the idea of some solitude following my husband's wisdom tooth extraction? Wilma G. Dear Wilma, I couldn't help but yell out 'Wilma' in the voice of Fred from The Flintstones after reading your query. If your husband is anything like him, I can understand your

DEAR Jasminda, HOW do I know if a social media friend request is legitimate? Lately I have been getting quite a few requests and the people (particularly the men) look like people I'd love to get to know better, but I find it strange that they are seeking me out. I

DEAR Jasminda, The local pest guy told us we have a rat infestation under the house. He put baits down and now, one week before our daughter's birthday party, there's a stench. What do we do? Maree and John R. Maree and John, I'm flattered that you think pest control is one of

DEAR Jasminda, WHAT do you reckon about boycotting major retailers who won’t sell Australia Day merchandise? Asking for a friend. Mr Daryl Hutton Dear Daryl, Australia Day paraphernalia has never made a lot of sense to me. Without entering the argument of whether the date should be changed, I’m